You have planned for a long time to go to a massage. Either you have a sore back, or you want to relax or just think
it's fashionable – the reason does not matter. So, to whom to get an appointment to - a man or a woman? A female
therapist may be your (good) acquaintance, you may tell her about the bad feelings when your husband or boyfriend
jokingly calls you a piggy, and she, in turn, may tell you what diet is better to combine the anti-cellulite massage with.
An excellent option, but ... somehow boring.
Another option - a male masseur. Images of erotic films appear in your head, you rush to add some make-up before
the procedure, you flirt and hope for courtship in return.
What if you suddenly will charm him? What if he invites you for a date? Or, even more tempting, is to seduce him
right on the massage table!
Do not rush to get frustrated and get new complexes, if nothing happens. Firstly, not all massage therapists, as well
as not all men, are handsome Beckhams. Maybe he’ll not impress you. Secondly, there are several aspects you need
to know about the men-masseurs.
If you come across a male massage therapist not in a street or a trendy café but in his office, he stays, first of all, a
professional. And you are his work. As cynical as it may sound. Even if you are a dream of all men and the sexiest
woman in the area, his is not going to offer himself and thus sacrifice his professional reputation.
Naturally, any man would pay attention to a beautiful woman.
And if he liked you, most likely he’ll express it somehow, but not in words. And what do words mean? Masseur has
strong and gentle hands (if you are his work, the hands are his working tools, and the working tool should always
be in order.) Then it all depends on his will. Possessing professional techniques during a medical procedure, he can
excite the woman, or, conversely, make the massage in a rough and indifferent manner. You will feel this for sure.
If your sixth sense tells you that you are moving to a red light, you should take the initiative to your own hands.
It is clear that you should not start to molest with him or to behave provocatively. But by inviting him for a coffee in the
evening, you'll see if any continue could be expected. If he agrees, you can congratulate yourself!
Still, the most logical answer to hear would be "Excuse me, I do not sleep with my female clients." In this case, you
should not blush or rush away from the session, neither you should insist on or shift to rudeness. Denial does not
mean that you are disgusting or do not deserve the attention. Everyone has the right to choose, to have principles, or,
in extreme cases, to have a strong moral position. Do not rule out the possibility that he is a loyal husband (he could
have removed the ring for convenience), an exemplary family man, extremely devoted to his only woman and he has
no time for you, as well as seven more visits appointed for this evening. And finally, he may be gay.
In any case, the friendship (or, at least, a strong friendly relation) with him is possible, even necessary. He is
interested in work bringing him the moral satisfaction, especially if you are a nice companion.
Despite of that you should not forget that friendship is friendship, but the money must be paid.
Also, you may recommend him to your friends, as he is most probably interested in new customers.
Another very important fact, which must not be forgotten: do not try to hide any physical defects from him. Believe
me, he sees them before you. But since he is not just a man, but man-masseur, being spoiled by women's bodies,
do not even think to be shy. Firstly, he can give you very real advice how to get rid of a couple of extra pounds.
Secondly, he, like anyone else, realizes that the woman is not a baby of giraffe, slim and leggy. Each of us has own
flaws. Thirdly, he must have seen women who were more thick and unattractive.
Do not be shy of your body, take your new friend as a professional. And maybe, when he firstly meets a woman,
without any complexes imposed by glossy magazines, he will change the principles and still invite you for a date.
See you at our salon!
